Try, Should, Need To...

"Do. Or do not. There is no try." by Yoda (Star Wars)

Truly wise words my youngest quoted to me this afternoon.  :)  Try, should, need to, are all words you need to be on the look out for.  They embody non commitment.  Be aware that when you use these words your heart is not in it.  There is something that is stopping you from fully committing.  The same applies when you hear other people using those words.

When you catch yourself using one of these words, ask yourself: "What do I really want to do?  What do my heart and gut say about all of this?" This might save you a lot of time and effort.  :)