Just as important as giving forgiveness is asking for it. We are all human, we make mistakes. Instead of ignoring knowing you did/were wrong, make it right and apologize.
Similar to showing vulnerability, asking for forgiveness is also a strength and something you do for your well being as much as for the other person. Find your strength and face what you didn't do so well. If you ignore it then it becomes one more layer you will need to work on some other time. It is like trying to hide dirt under the rug. Soon the rug will be floating on dirt.
Saying you are sorry and asking for forgiveness starts the healing process, maybe not always for both parties, but as long as it is heartfelt it will be for you.
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