Unpleasantness

It is a challenge to learn how to accept unpleasant situations the same way you would pleasant situations. What makes a situation unpleasant is your own perception of it and the insecurities it triggers within you. Accepting the uncomfortableness and living in it is one way to make peace with it. Live it consciously instead of fighting it. Do what you need to do to work the situation through to resolution, even if it causes you more unpleasantness, instead of ignoring it or judging it.  It is there to help you grow and learn.